The Eyes Have It! ...They're the windows to your soul!

You already know that what's inside of you is more important than what's outside of you. So, how do you keep this straight? Well, here's a start:

1. Set goals for yourself. Decide where you ultimately want to be in two, five, and ten years time. Now, reflect upon how little fashion plays into that. Your talents, determination, intelligence, and guts will come much more into play than a smart outfit or a killer bag.

2. When you find yourself thinking about fashion too much, switch your thoughts to something more constructive for your goals and prospects for the future. Think: How could I improve something in my personality? How could I be a better person? More reliable? More honest? More hard working? More enjoyable to be with? How could I improve in a skill or academic area?

3. To keep your fashion the most beautiful it can be, keep the focal point of any ensemble on your eyes. Here's how:

• Smile!
  

• Wear your best colors around your face.
  

• Wear a touch of eye makeup for a sparkle.
  

• Don't set up a competing focal point like a "shock" accessory, too much skin, or tight clothes. Your sexuality is an awesome thing, but it's only a part of you; Not the whole enchilada!
  

"One of the best ways to reduce worry and stress about your appearance is to think less about yourself and a little more about somebody else."

"Beautiful on the inside = Beautiful on the outside." - Bobbi Brown